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I like American music. Do you like American music? I like American music, too.

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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • I’ll second this. When my youngest was in preschool and I worked nights I was always the one dropping him off and picking up, and after class a big group of kids would hang at the playground and the moms would talk and hang and it was so nice. When summer rolled around someone would be like “we’ll be at this pool at this time” and whoever was free would show up, but that was the only thing that worked. Kids are too chaotic and needy for caregivers to plan around them.

    If my parents or brothers lived nearby it’d be different. Some of my friends have these intergenerational support networks and they can make plans and keep them (most of the time) because they have reliable childcare. Of course, they also spend more time taking care of their younger siblings and nieces and nephews, but that’s the trade-off. I’d take it in a heartbeat.