Nooo Netherlands noo, don’t go down the private rail route. Learn from Britains downfall, learn from Germanys descent.

Give more info about location and language, then maybe people can help better.

Also maybe asking in the local community for book donations might be an option.

Your logic is flawed.

You have 2 samples of people with ADHD. And because of that you make the assumptions that all other people with ADHD react exactly the same. And all other neurodivergents, also those with something completely unrelated to ADHD, also react like that.

And then you also conclude that everyone without ADHD would react the complete opposite. As if there is 0 nuance to people without neurodivergence.

That is a lot of assumptions based on basically nothing.