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Cake day: September 2nd, 2023

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  • It’s okay.

    Really messed me up, tbh. Told that my purpose as a woman was to get married and “please my husband”, no matter what.

    As a teen, my desire to like boys never manifested. My youth pastor would preach about how women were princesses whose desire was to be saved by a knight, and men were knights seeking adventure. I always wanted the adventure, and I was completely ostracized for it.

    Imagine being told that your purpose is to be loved, then realizing that your true self is something nobody will ever love.

    It’s disturbing, and I was severely depressed throughout my entire young & teenage years.

    (it got much worse, but I don’t want to go over that. Just know that I escaped that shit eventually.)




  • Seems like a huge part of the problem is equating “self-worth” to “getting laid”.

    Putting your dick in a woman doesn’t make you any more of a man / successful / worth more than anyone else.

    Societal expectations need to be rejected. Oh, success is measured by your ability to get married, have a house, and raise your 2.5 children? For a vast majority, NONE OF THAT IS CURRENTLY SUSTAINABLE AND/OR OBTAINABLE. So why bother? Right?

    I get it. It ain’t right, but I get it.








  • Group of juggalos living out in the woods in Washington saved my life by helping me ditch a r×pist who was traveling with our caravan.

    They did stuff like help out at the food pantries, told us the best places to go for free/low-cost supplies, and sabotaged the construction area for the Walmart often enough for it to be delayed for a loooong time.

    I always think you gotta check with the people before you assume anything, but, from what I have experienced, they are scarily enthusiastic yet genuinely cool folks. Majority seem to be supportive of LGBTQ+ kinda stuff. 👍