Not known to me, but that sounds amazing

His story pops into my head sometimes when I lie awake at night. It’s difficult to describe how deeply unsettled it makes me feel

I thought this would be the case for me, but when we decided not to for our son, only one person we knew agreed with it. The crazy part is most people would start by saying something along the lines of “ooh it’s a boy, how’s it going down there?” Like they feel bad about it. But when I tell them we didn’t suddenly its all about hygiene and aesthetics.

Also surprised at how many people asked about it…