Just like last time I’m gonna chime in about how my ex with the foot fetish was actually super chill sexually speaking and while he had a loooooot of mental health problems his solid grasp on consent and just general sexual patience really made a big difference for me and how I negotiate my sexual needs with that of all the partners I’ve had since. He really really needed to get a job and move out of his parents house though. Still hasn’t. Jesus that man was a dumpster fire in every other conceivable way.