I don’t know if this is supposed to otherwise be the “that piece of shit is definitely cheating on me” or “Oh no, it’s 20:05. She said she would come back at 20:00. Holy shit, she’s dead. She’s dead, oh no. What happened? 20:06, yeah, she’s dead. Fuck no!”
I interpreted it to be the opposite of the former
I was sadly a mix. Always gonna hate myself for that… There was never any anger behind it but still…
It’s something you can work on. CBT techniques are for exactly that type of thought pattern. You learn to recognize an irrational thought, challenge it, then let it go.
Me being poly: chilling because I’m happy they’re living their best life getting plowed but whoever they want
My partner has been living thousands of km away for the past two years for education/his new job. Sometimes a full day of texting is just “Sup dude, look at this frog” (5h later) -> “Neat frog!”. And that’s fine. No reason to constantly be chatting unless it’s actually important.
Oh no!!! Myy friend (42) got some vacation day from work but her husband (39) didn’t so she scheduled a spa hotel and went to relax and have massages and stuff you do at a spa. On the second day her husband stopped answering her and she thought he was angry or something (even though he wasn’t upset before) and “gave him space”.
He wasn’t upset, he was fucking dead!
She got home and he was 4 days dead in the summer heat. The whole building smelled.The one question everyone asked her “How come you didn’t talk to you husband for 4 days?”
Give them space but also they could be dead /s
ps: this is real. my poor friend is still recovering and spend thousand to clean her flat
The word for someone that trusts unconditionally is sucker. Well placed trust is earned and conditional by definition.
That said, if you don’t trust someone in a relationship that’s a problem that needs to be addressed one way or another.
